We offer a variety of in-person and online services from our Wake Forest, NC-based practice. Start receiving the support you and your partner deserve.
You can meet with a caring therapist by following these simple steps today:ģ. We offer support from our Wake Forest, NC-based practice and across the state via online therapy. Our team would be honored to offer you and your partner support.
Take the In-depth quiz as seen on Sex, Love & Goop to get your answers! Remember, one is not better than the other… we are all deserving of pleasure, just as we are! ○ Shadows: boredom, frustration, people pleasingĪre you interested in finding out your erotic blueprint and finding your own pleasure profile to help deepen your connections in the bedroom? ○ Turn-ons: trying new things, layering and combining different forms of touch/play ○ Key words: contrast, variety, constant exploration, erotically intelligent ○ Shadows: get stuck in ruts, think too much on the “why”, take risks ○ Toys: sensation toys, pleasure mapping, bondage ○ Turn-ons: personal rule-breaking, pushing the edge, intensity, hitting psychological buttons ○ Key words: taboo, endlessly creative, imaginative ○ Shadows: can get so focused on the end result they miss the journey with their partners ○ Toys: something controlled by their partner, on/in/around erogenous zones ○ Turn-ons: erotic visuals, dirty talk, nudity ○ Key words: certainty, easily and quickly aroused, sex leads to relaxation ○ Shadows: can get stuck in their heads, tend to be picky ○ Toys: eye masks and soft feeling fabrics ○ Turn-ons: different types of touching, setting the mood, music, relaxation, positive reminders
#EROTIC BLUEPRINT QUIZ ONLINE FULL#
○ Key words: all five senses, full body pleasure, prolonged experiences ○ Shadows: very sensitive, easily overwhelmed, need strong boundaries ○ Toys: essential oils, feathers with a soft touch ○ Turn-ons: building erotic tension, eye contact, matched breath, staying present ○ Key words: intuitive lovers, need space, teasing, anticipation, sense of safety, easily distracted, deeply connect By understanding your style as part of the 5 Erotic Blueprints you are able to create pleasurable, fulfilling, and sexy experiences. There is something similar to love languages when it comes to erotic desire in couples, The 5 Erotic Blueprints.įiguring out your erotic style, or blueprint, could be the key to helping you open the door to connection and pleasure! We are all wired differently for pleasure including turn-ons, turn-offs, needs, toys, and behaviors that align with our unique erotic blueprint. Understanding someone’s love language allows you to connect with them in a way that feels safe and secure to them. If you have ever taken the Five Love Languages quiz, then you are familiar with people having different ways of expressing their affection. While love thrives on having, erotic desire thrives on wanting. Eroticism is playful, adventurous, and uncertain. Eroticism is experienced through curiosity, imagination, anticipation and letting go of our responsibilities for a while. We are given many models of committed love in our lives, but when looking for that “spark” to heat things up we often miss the mark.Įsther Perel says it best when she describes eroticism by saying “eroticism isn’t sex it’s sexuality transformed by the human imagination”. But, if asked what erotic desire is, what would they say? As therapists, we often see couples who have neglected the eroticism in their relationships, redirecting it or shutting it down altogether. If you ask your partner what committed love is, they could give you an answer. In relationships, committed love and erotic desire are two very different things.
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